The word that has us more confused than any other word in the language of old and new… we ‘love’ chocolate (choose your own addiction)… we 'love' a glorious sunset or a tremendous storm from the comfort of our warm homes ;-)
Love is not something that we switch on and off like the lights in our warm homes… it’s not something that we choose to have or to own… Love is the energy that is universe, we choose to allow it flow through us, or we choose to fight it in some way… this can be the overwhelming desire for love in our lives when we missing that significant other half… Love sees no limits, has no boundaries, it just is... no matter of age, gender, looks... Love is all.
I have been a serial monogamist through my life… makes me sound like a criminal… however it’s always been with me, from an early adult age… very soon into my second serious *relationship… that people aren’t really here to own one another, we are here to exchange love with one another… it’s a beautiful feeling to experience love with many different souls, some I have known from many lives past… some I’d never met before… being aware of the growth in experience and the lessons that are exchanged, is very often way beyond our current awareness of the here and now. All too often these lessons are learnt in hindsight, as we lick our wounds, pick ourselves up and head off into the maelstrom of life once again.
* It was during the first few days of being with S, the Mother of two of my children. It suddenly came to me as an overwhelming truth that I would never experience a life long relationship because there are just too many people to get to know, and I wasn’t born to be in the normal kind of life. I was born to challenge, everyone and everything that needs to be challenged.
I even said this to S. at the time. To say that we had a special understanding, would be somewhat of an understatement… a week or so later she told me that she was expecting our son D and that he was due in November. She also said that I was free to stay or go… I decided to stay, for at that time love was flowing between us, but we both knew there would come a time when I would move on.
Although I love the idea of romance, in reality there is no such thing, what we regard as romance was invented by our Victorian ancestors.
I have, or at least I used to have a book entitled ‘I Come As A Brother’ by Bartholomew channelled by Mary Margaret Moore.
The first chapter is called ‘What Love Is Not…’ love is not something that we turn on and off… it’s not yelling at the tops of our voices at one another… it’s not sitting in silence in anger… it’s not so many things that all of us practice at some point in our lessons of having relationships with one another.
‘I LOVE myself loving you loving yourself…’ this is the most empowering way of expressing love to another, for when we say ‘I Love you,’ we are leaving our self out of the equation… we place another onto a pedestal and wonder why it all comes crashing down around us.
Enlightened ones very often appear as crazy, because they are not afraid to live their own lives… paraphrased from 'I Come as a Brother'.
Love is when we can look at a stranger and feel the warmth of love flow through us toward someone we don’t know… when we can love another in this way our world will change in unbelievable ways, beyond our imagination…
Through all the bad things that go on
There are many things that do us no wrong…
Walking on a sunny day lovers hand in hand
Connected with a power we all understand
We all meet people who set love in motion
We don't need any aphrodisiac potion
The joy we feel of the animal inside
The feeling that is spread worldwide.
Smile this universe is a safe place
Put that power right across, right across your face
Spread it around there's enough to share
Love is the reality that's everywhere
Love is for everyone love is for free
Love dances between you and me.
Love is the law, yeah love under will
Ignorance, jealously, hate will only kill
Armed with love to create a better future
Every man, every woman, every child is a star
This is no dream it's right here and now
It's just we have to remember how
We can't afford to sit around and wait
There's too much fear to be made from fate.
All around is the energy of light
When we pull it in, we get our second sight
The light of love shines through us all
And yet we fear we are going to fall
When we surrender, allow love to flow
It is only then that we'll really know
That love is for everyone love is for free
Love dances between you and me…
© Psymon FC Aug 12th 1994/May 3rd 2003
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